Love is in the air as Valentine’s season approaches. Women will be expecting fancy dates, chocolate, and other exquisite gifts. But what can you get a man for Valentine’s? You could buy some new lingerie that you will likely wear once, maybe twice. It will require a substantial amount of time to put it on, and it won’t be comfortable. You could get him something less traditional, maybe some concert tickets or a golf pass if he’s into that sort of thing. Or, hear me out, you can gift men’s sex toys for Valentine’s.

There are women out there who would whole heartedly object to gift men’s sex toys. Saying things like, “that’s gross.” Or “I give him all the sex he needs.” But think about it, how often do you actual tell him no? How often is sex not practical due to illness, or fatigue, or maybe one of you is away? Do you own a dildo or vibrator? Gifting men sex toys can send him a message that you understand and support his sexual needs, even when you are unwilling or unable to have sex.

The feedback we get from women who have given the gift of men’s sex toys is phenomenal. Men’s sex toys give you an out, so you never have to feel guilty about not wanting to have sex. They can also be used during foreplay to arouses and stimulate your partner in new, exciting ways. Men’s sex toys shouldn’t be seen as a replacement for sex. They are a symbol of sexual openness and trust. And when you’re the one who gives it to him, you open a door to a healthier sex life.

Gifting men’s sex toys

Shopping for men’s sex toys can be a daunting task.  The most important thing is to not feel intimidated by it.  The second most important factor is knowing what he likes.  Is there a specific fetish he has?  You could try to find something that fits within that fetish.  For example, there are plenty of men out there who really love performing anal sex.  Gifting him a sex toy that resembles a butthole might be your ticket.  Immersion is important to men.  What a toy looks like can be just as important as how it feels.

If you feel intimidated by gifting men sex toys that look like a real vagina, consider gifting him a fantasy sex toy like the ones sold here or over at Bad Dragon.  Most women report they feel less bad about a fantasy sex toy than they do about a realistic one.  Gifting a fantasy themed sex toy is easy if you know what he likes.  And there are many options to choose from, too.

Benefits

There are many benefits reported by men who use sex toys regularly.  One of those benefits is being able to perform for longer periods of time.  Another is they tend to be less pushy when it comes to sex.  The health benefits have also been studied.  Men who ejaculate regularly are less likely to develop testicular cancer or ED.  Gifting men’s sex toys can also help prevent him from cheating.  If he has a perfectly good sex toy at home, he will be less likely to try and find sexual gratification from outside sources, IE strippers.

Conclusion

Most men don’t get the frequency of sexual stimulation they require.  And gifting men’s sex toys can be extremely beneficial to him, and you!  By giving him a men’s sex toy, you are sending a message that you are open to trying new things, and that you support his sexual needs and desires.  It gives you an out when you don’t want to put out.  It helps promote openness and togetherness through both solo play and foreplay.  Men’s sex toys shouldn’t be seen as gross, or as a replacement for his partner.  They are something that can open new doors to intimacy.  If nothing else, gifting men’s sex toys can help your man last longer in bed.