The first time I ever used a stroker, I couldn’t help but feel somewhat disappointed.  The reviews on that particular toy raved about how great it was but my experience was lack luster.  I tried it out a few more times and still wasn’t impressed.  I thought about throwing it away, but then I started thinking about what I could do to make the experience better.  I tried a few things and the experience got much better.  Now I would like to share with you some tips for using a stroker.