Halloween is defiantly one of the more sexualized holidays. With the costumes and drinking, and let’s not forget the haunted houses. There’s just something about the season that makes people extra horny and adventurous. Somehow, over time Halloween has become a time of year where many people experiment sexually. So, this article will be about 10 ways to get your freak on this Halloween. These are the “must try,” sexual acts that are sometimes seen as taboo. But you know what they say, don’t knock it till you try it.
1 food stuff
Talking to folks I was shocked how many people haven’t tried incorporating food, with sex. Obviously, the goal here isn’t to eat a 3-course meal off your significant others ass. But incorporating food can be a fun and delicious way to spice up your sex life. Try things like incorporating chocolate syrup or honey into foreplay. Try teasing your partner with differently textured foods. Make sure to keep it safe though. Avoid inserting things into each other’s body that might not be recoverable. And be sure to have some towels or baby wipes close by for cleanup. Getting lewd with the food can be a messy experience.
2 bondage
If you have never been tied up by your partner, or had the opportunity to tie them up, you should definitely try it. Bondage can be a very arousing experience for both partners. However, safety and consent are both huge with this one. Never tie someone up in such a way that it is painful or cuts of circulation or air flow. Have a predetermined safe word and stop immediately if anyone says it. Blindfolds can be a ton of fun with bondage, too.
3 anal
Anal is a lot more fun than most people realize. Usually, it requires a significant amount of prep work, foreplay, and trust. Lots of lubricant is a must, especially if it’s your first time. And did I mention foreplay? It’s important to go slow, and much like bondage, if either partner becomes uncomfortable, stop immediately. Have a safe word for go, slow down, and stop on standby and if it becomes painful stop immediately. You can read more about anal sex, here.
4 take nude photos
Taking nude photos or video of each other can really get the juices flowing, if you know what i mean. This can be a fun way to get your freak on this Halloween. Especially if you and your partner spend a lot of time apart. Taking photos together while performing sexual acts can spice up the bedroom, and add a new level of intimacy to your relationship. If you both agree to it, you can add a bit of exhibitionism to the experience. Hire a photographer to take the photos. It’s important you maintain trust and never share the photos with anyone unless you both agree.
5 watch each other masturbate
Voyeurism can be a thrilling experience. Watching your partner masturbate, or knowing that someone else is watching you, is almost like watching live action porn. It can be a huge turn on for some people, and they may not even realize it. If you have not watched your partner masturbate, I highly recommend it as one of the 10 ways to get your freak on this Halloween. If you are feeling really freaky, you can combine this with number 4 on the list, taking nude photos or videos of the act.
6 incorporate sex toys
If you haven’t tried it already, incorporating sex toys into your sexual exploits is an absolute must. And we aren’t just saying that because we are a freaky sex toy company. With so many toys for both males and females on the market, it’s easy to find something you and your partner will like. Vibrating toys are super stimulating and can make foreplay a million times better. Cock rings, butt plugs, and penis sleeves can all be used to enhance sexual gratification. Sex toys don’t have to be dildos and strokers either. There are many options for sensory play, like sex wax, feathers, and paddles.
7 try role playing
If you have never role played with your partner, you should definitely try it. Role playing is a trilling way to explore sexual fantasies and act them out in a fun and safe way. Role playing can be as simple or complex as you want it to be. You can act out your favorite movie sex scene, or try some “teacher/student,” or “doctor/patient,” play. The possibilities are pretty much endless. For tips on how to role play with your partner, click here.
8 attend a sex party
These can be hard to find in some areas. But if you have never been to one, you should try it at least once. It can be a very intense and interesting experience. Obviously, this isn’t for everyone, but if you and your SO are open to the idea, you can find like-minded folks online. There are many sex groups on reddit, Facebook, and Twitter. Try to find one that’s local to you. Remember to be safe, and if the group you are going to sex party with seems sketchy, don’t do it.
9 watch porn together
Next on the list of 10 ways to get your freak on this Halloween is watching porn together. Most people watch at least a little bit of porn. So why not try watching it together? It’s shocking that more people don’t already do this together. Watching porn together can be a huge turn on, especially if you were raised to believe porn is taboo. Just remember, positions and angles in porn are made for the camera, and not actually for human pleasure. So don’t try to reenact the things you see. Just use it to get yourselves riled up. This can be combined with watching each other masturbate, too.
10 explore sexual fantasies
Everybody has sexual fantasies and secret fetishes. And Halloween is the perfect time to get freaky and explore those fantasies. This can be a hard one to pull off outside of a long-term relationship, but I always tell people, if you don’t ask you don’t get. Maybe your partner, or someone else you know shares your fantasy. So, ask your partner or significant other or even your BFF if they would be willing to play.
Trying all 10 ways to get your freak on this Halloween would be a lot. But trying one or two is well within the realm of doable. Remember, be safe, have consent, and don’t try to force or badger your SO into doing anything they don’t want to do. Halloween is supposed to be fun for everybody. And so is sex. If you have any other suggestions on ways to get your freak on, leave us a comment.